Wednesday, March 2, 2011
Unstable relationship after a child?
Such a thing is very common with newly wed couples. Most just deal with it. Just keep doing what you're doing. And you try not to be depressed. They say the first 6 months are the hardest. Don't despair. Do your best. Try to explain it to him. He should'nt be angry about no sex. If he is, tell HIM to look after the kid. My mother said she had to stay up until around 3-4am, trying to get me to sleep so she could as well, holding me and singing while walking around the room. If not, I kept crying. Just bear with it. Plus, the baby only bothers you for a feed. He can't really help because he's got no milk. Well, you can ask him to do the simpler things like make food occasionally, bring his kid to/from school on his way to/from work. It's a lot of stress, you'd just have to make it work. I swear it'd be easier after a year or so. Do you live with your parents? In a Chinese family, the grandparents live with their oldest son and help with raising children so you can your/his parents. Good luck. Remember, it'll get better. It's worth it.
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